“What if there are no limitations?”
“What does that mean?… No energy limits me. None. No others.”
“There are no limitations. There is no limiting energy. There are only choices. Every moment is a choice. You choose who you are in every moment. If you never realize there is a choice, you never choose differently. You repeat, you echo what you have seen, learned, you reflect the situation.
There are no limits on you, on who you choose to be. If you look for limitations you will see them and become them. You are your own limiting factor. You above all else. Nobody tells you who you are. You always choose, even unconsciously you choose. You choose when you respond to a situation, you choose your limitations.
You create by choice. You always create your choices.
You are never denied choice.”
“What am I seeking?”
“You seek that which you already are.”
You are asked to allow yourself to be forgiven.
It is completely natural and normal to want and deserve friendship and love. You can love someone without needing anything from them. Sometimes the best way to love someone is to take a step back. From a distance.
If a relationship is difficult – it doesn’t mean you don’t love them, or they don’t love you. It doesn’t mean you are abandoned, or that you are abandoning them.
Some connections work best with gentleness and space. Sometimes you need that space – to root within your own needs.
Sometimes, when I need someone to be more, to give more than they can – I tell them out loud. Just with me, just myself. I have a conversation with them, and remember reconciliation and love.
Because the people you love, you love for a reason. And you can remember that too, and not just the pain.
Gratitude is not about things, but about love. Gratitude shines forth from within, your source – not in judgment or measure of goodness outside of you, but in love in all ways from within you.
Gratitude loves all, not chosen by things that are good enough, but choosing love for everything that is.
Gratitude is your own reflection.
The seed knows how to grow, how to bloom, how to fruit, how to grow deep roots into the earth and blossom. But it needs space, it needs light, air, water, nourishing soil.
Care for the seedling, without needing to tell it how to grow, what to become, what it needs to be to make you happy. Let it root and grow in it’s own time, in it’s own way.
Water it, be with it, don’t choke it, don’t cover it… hold the space for nourishment and growth to blossom into the new – whatever it may be.
As taught by Jose Luis – Be your own observer, map out these old energies, all of the patterns, meditate with them. Meditate, and follow the energy, track it. You are a map maker of your own life, your own patterns. This is the beginning, to track these energies, and see the source.
Sit with them, as deeply as possible, be in them and aware as much as possible, and they will become clear. Be in them, listen, feel, explore.
Then, be truthful, with your own soul, your self, with spirit. Be truthful, about this energy in you, what you are creating, what you are sourcing from. Disclose all of it. Not in blame, but in acknowledging – yes, you were creating all of this. Unconsciously. Just be truthful about what you have created.
Sit with these things in your life, listen to them, explore, meditate, and then disclose what you find. Keep doing this, and map out all of your roles, and all of the energies and beliefs that were given to you.
These are the first steps towards shifting all of it – and keep the awareness when these patterns come up – that they are not the truth of you.
When you say things like – he doesn’t love me, I’m abandoned, I’m suffering, I’m betrayed, I’m alone, I’m neglected – listen carefully. Listen, and listen more. Listen as deeply as you can. Keep listening.
At some point you will realize – you’re hearing the voice of your inner child. Or your parents, or grandparents, or old relationships – all other energies that you’ve taken on, that are echoing now in your own energy.
All of these old energies are informing your life, this is why people continue to repeat the same relationships, the same family dynamics, work dynamics, all of it. We continue to repeat the old patterns, until we see where they come from and how they’re creating our current experience.
We all echo, repeating the energies of the past – like a record playing the same song, over and over, in all of our different roles in life.
Listen to the song – you don’t have to keep singing it. Listen, and listen, to who was singing those old songs – it wasn’t you. Listen, and let those others sing those old songs.
Witness the truth of that, and sing your own music.
Treat your Twin Flame like your best friend. Give the benefit of the doubt. Approach them with kindness and openness, with vulnerability. If they’re angry, or reacting, give them the space they need, or give yourself the space and the boundaries you need – in a loving way.
Remember them as someone who loves you, someone you love. Don’t put in the expectations of relationship, of sex, of having to be something or someone that you need them to become. Just trust in their own journey and trust in yours. Be open in love, and listen. Let them grow as you go. Treat them as your best friend.